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...and here is what I've learnt in my modest quarter of a century:
- be true to yourself. I can't stress enough how many hours of my youth werespent wasted wishing I was 'her' with the nicer hair, 'her' with the more fashionable clothes or 'her' with the richer Daddy. I've learnt that I'm me, and whilst I might not have made total peace with everything, I know one thing for sure: there's no one else I'd rather be.
- "people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints on your heart". This quote I once read somewhere has stuck in my head like glue. I can count on two hands my true friends, who I can rely on in a heartbeat, and vice-versa. It's quality not quantity, and I'd much rather have just one true friend than dozens of 'mates'.
- in the face of real adversity and struggle, I can survive, I am strong enough to cope.
- you can never be too thankful for the incredible privileges and opportunities in your life. Being humble is a very endearing quality, and possessing the skill to truly appreciate your life is a hard but vital one to learn.
- there is no such thing as perfect.
- life isn't easy, but I don't think I'd want it to be. Try and look deeper than the surface. Difficulties provide challenges to overcome, skills to be developed and honed, and achievements to bring pride and strength. I am glad to look back and not regret a single thing, because each action and event made me the person I am right now.
- grief is one of life's most overwhelming and crippling emotions. Grief is the dark-side of love, the part we never want to experience or feel, yet an inevitability along the path of life. Losing someone will never get easier, and the pain might take a very long time to fade, those wounds might never heal. The imprint on your life of those lost will always remain, a bitter sweet memory to treasure and cherish.
- love and pride are what make me tick. Everyone is different, that's the beauty in the uniqueness of people and life, and understanding our emotional needs is key. I'm not motivated by money or material things, I'm needy and dependent, I've made my peace with that. Knowing I am loved and that people are proud of me makes my heart burst and my smile wide.
- priorities are hard to make, especially once children enter the equation, and all of the demands placed upon you seem to be of equal importance, but sometimes you need to take a step back. This poem sums it up perfectly:
"I hope that my child looks back on today
And remembers a mother who had time to play
There will be years for cleaning and cooking
But children grow up when you’re not looking
Tomorrow I'll do all the chores you can mention
But today my baby needs time and attention.
So quiet down cobwebs and dust go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby, and babies don’t keep."
- I'm a big believer in karma. It is true what 'they' say you know, what goes around comes around, and good things do come to those who wait - eventually.
- on the inside I'm very deep, I'm a thinker and a procrastinator. On the outside I'm quite shallow. It's easier and less stressful to be that way for day to day life, but I'm a big believer that ultimately it is what's on the inside that counts.
- I'm proud of myself, really proud. It's taken me this long to realise it, but I'm incredibly proud of the things that I've achieved, great or small, I've accomplished them myself, and no one can take them away from me.
It's my birthday today, my day to celebrate being me.
...and here is what I've learnt in my modest quarter of a century:
- be true to yourself. I can't stress enough how many hours of my youth were
- "people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints on your heart". This quote I once read somewhere has stuck in my head like glue. I can count on two hands my true friends, who I can rely on in a heartbeat, and vice-versa. It's quality not quantity, and I'd much rather have just one true friend than dozens of 'mates'.
- in the face of real adversity and struggle, I can survive, I am strong enough to cope.
- you can never be too thankful for the incredible privileges and opportunities in your life. Being humble is a very endearing quality, and possessing the skill to truly appreciate your life is a hard but vital one to learn.
- there is no such thing as perfect.
- life isn't easy, but I don't think I'd want it to be. Try and look deeper than the surface. Difficulties provide challenges to overcome, skills to be developed and honed, and achievements to bring pride and strength. I am glad to look back and not regret a single thing, because each action and event made me the person I am right now.
- grief is one of life's most overwhelming and crippling emotions. Grief is the dark-side of love, the part we never want to experience or feel, yet an inevitability along the path of life. Losing someone will never get easier, and the pain might take a very long time to fade, those wounds might never heal. The imprint on your life of those lost will always remain, a bitter sweet memory to treasure and cherish.
- love and pride are what make me tick. Everyone is different, that's the beauty in the uniqueness of people and life, and understanding our emotional needs is key. I'm not motivated by money or material things, I'm needy and dependent, I've made my peace with that. Knowing I am loved and that people are proud of me makes my heart burst and my smile wide.
- priorities are hard to make, especially once children enter the equation, and all of the demands placed upon you seem to be of equal importance, but sometimes you need to take a step back. This poem sums it up perfectly:
"I hope that my child looks back on today
And remembers a mother who had time to play
There will be years for cleaning and cooking
But children grow up when you’re not looking
Tomorrow I'll do all the chores you can mention
But today my baby needs time and attention.
So quiet down cobwebs and dust go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby, and babies don’t keep."
- I'm a big believer in karma. It is true what 'they' say you know, what goes around comes around, and good things do come to those who wait - eventually.
- on the inside I'm very deep, I'm a thinker and a procrastinator. On the outside I'm quite shallow. It's easier and less stressful to be that way for day to day life, but I'm a big believer that ultimately it is what's on the inside that counts.
- I'm proud of myself, really proud. It's taken me this long to realise it, but I'm incredibly proud of the things that I've achieved, great or small, I've accomplished them myself, and no one can take them away from me.
It's my birthday today, my day to celebrate being me.
















